5 Ways To Make Him Attracted To You In The Office
Why doesn't he fancy me?
It must be distracting when there is a guy you can't take your eyes off, working with you in the office. What do you do?
There is a good chance the guy you fancy has a partner or is married, but what if he is single? Knowing there is an opportunity for romance can make the whole thing thrilling and work will be the last thing on your mind.
Here are five ways you can attempt to attract him and if they are carried out with perfect execution he will be falling at your feet.
1. Laugh at yourself
Laughing at yourself can be very attractive to men, especially if you are a woman who is very serious in her job role. If you can make a passing joke about yourself in conversation, men will find it easier to approach you and will want to engage in conversation with you more often. If you say to him before you step into a meeting that you're having a bad hair day, this will raise a few laughs, even if your hair is in perfect order.
2. Ask for his help
Look for an opportunity to grab his attention and ask for his help. Try not to make it too obvious. It could be that you need help trying to locate a file on a shared drive in the office network. Or you could play the maiden in distress, and ask him if he didn't mind opening your jar of coffee if you happen to see him in the kitchen area. At this point, he may already fancy you.
3. Dress Smart
Men are such visual creatures and normally can't help themselves when a well-dressed woman comes into their proximity. Dressing smart also adds confidence and gives the impression of a professional. They are more likely to approach you and find some excuse to talk to you.
4. Flirt
There was always the expectancy for men to chat women up and still is. Choose something cheesy to say with a chat-up line and you will win her over. It's ridiculous to think that men should be approaching women with awful banter that makes them more undesirable, especially nowadays. This is not to say men shouldn't pay a compliment or at least say something that is funny.
Pay him a compliment, and if you are getting to know him well you can test the water and suggest getting some lunch together or going for a drink.
5. Focus on your body language
The body can show physically if you are attracted to someone since men are visual and are more likely to pick up on any signals you send out. Eye contact is probably the most common and can tell you so much in seconds if someone likes you. Look into his eyes and hold his gaze, but don't overdo it. He wouldn't want to think some crazed stalker is staring at him in the office all day. Smiling and looking as though you are enjoying the conversation and laughing will engage him more.